It's All in the Timing

A Good Guy Going to Waste? by Nicholas Allen
When you're an unmarried, heterosexual man with a job in New York, people consider it their sacred obligation—nay, privilege—to take you off the market as soon as possible. Friends' girlfriends are constantly trying to fix...READ MORE | COMMENTS (0)

Without Saying a Word by Nicholas Allen
In every relationship, there are the things you talk about and the things you don't. Sometimes it's about tactfulness—you don't always want to be talking about exes, or the things you'd occasionally rather be doing...READ MORE | COMMENTS (0)

All About the Timing by Nicholas Allen
They say everything in life is about the timing, and it's a lesson I've learned all-too-frequently the hard way. To wit: Patricia has gotten an incredible job opportunity in LA, and she's going to take...READ MORE | COMMENTS (2)

Warts and All by Nicholas Allen
There are a lot of things I worry about women finding out about me after we've been dating for a couple of months. Actually, it's not that I worry about them finding these things out,...READ MORE | COMMENTS (0)

The Perfect Weekend by Nicholas Allen
My lovely co-blogger, Gwen Cooper, and I decided that it might be fun to wrap up the week with a sort of "his and hers" catalogue of our favorite things to do with significant others...READ MORE | COMMENTS (2)

Looming Train Wreck by Nicholas Allen
It’s usually cause for celebration when one of your best friends tells you she’s getting married. But that wasn’t so much the case when my friend Rebecca and her boyfriend took Patricia and me out...READ MORE | COMMENTS (0)

Why Men Don't Call, Part 2 by Nicholas Allen
Back in June, I posted a blog on the subject of why men don’t call when we say we will. At the time, my humble assertion was that the reason we don’t call is because...READ MORE | COMMENTS (4)

You Can't Un-Ring a Bell by Nicholas Allen
Sometimes people ask questions and then wish they’d never heard the answers. Case in point: My friend John (whom I wrote about in my last post) has been dating a woman for the past couple...READ MORE | COMMENTS (0)