The Office Party Etiquette Essentials

by WiredBerries Editors — December 12, 2007

It's office party season, so watch out. You will likely not only have your own to deal with but perhaps a significant other's as well. It's one thing to make a fool of yourself at your own party, but to do so as someone's date is an even bigger faux pas. Whether you look forward to or dread the annual holiday office parties, here are the essential guidelines to help you make the most of it:

• Don't be a No Show--Snubbing the office party can come across as stuck-up, plus you're missing out on an opportunity to network in a more informal setting. It's always smart to appear grateful and supportive of your company's efforts to entertain, no matter how badly they fail.
• Don't Form a Clique--We all have our favorite coworkers, but fight the urge to huddle in the corner with them and make snarky remarks about your office nemesis or someone's date you swear is an escort. This is the ideal time to rub elbows will the higher ups and remind them what a great guy or gal you are. Work it (appropriately, of course).
• Don't Overdo the Alcohol--This one is very important if you value your job. We've all heard tales of someone who got a little tipsy at the office party and said something questionable to their boss, or increased their familiarity with a colleague in the coat closet. If you drink at all, drink moderately--even if everyone else in the room appears to be getting drunk. Don't even risk letting that horror story be you!
• Be Grateful and Gracious--Set yourself apart by conscientiously thanking your boss and/or host of the party for the wonderful time you had. Even if you thought the whole thing was a bore, find at least one thing you liked and comment on it.
• Dress Appropriately--Yes, you have killer legs and this seems like the perfect opportunity to put on that mini and show the entire office some of your assets. Resist the urge.

"Office holiday parties are a great venue for entry-level workers or interns to introduce themselves to more senior-level employees with whom they would not otherwise interact," noted Mark Charnock, vice president and general manager of MonsterTRAK, the division of Monster for college students and recent graduates. "However, being both social and professional can be challenging for anybody. Often times junior, as well as more seasoned employees, do what is most comfortable--they only socialize with their friends and sometimes take advantage of the open bar too much--as opposed to doing what is best for their careers."